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Two Strangers Trying Not to Kill Each Other

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When Maggie met Joel, he was already two marriages deep, and she was exiting #4. Thirty years later they are still together, despite the decade between them (he’s 84, she’s 75). It’s clear there is a genuine and abiding love there. But that’s not to say there aren’t tensions. Joel (Meyerowitz) is a world-famous photographer, feted at the best galleries, a man of multiple books and acolytes everywhere he turns. Maggie is also an artist, a self-published writer, a pianist, a painter… But famous she is not. And now as their time is coming nearer, she cannot quite escape the dread of a life unappreciated, unfulfilled, overlooked, maybe, even by her adoring Joel.

This intimate and candid film by a younger husband and wife artist team (co-directors Manon Ouimet and Jacob Perlmutter) is a delicate and immensely moving dual portrait of a man and a woman, together and apart, at that point in life when the end casts a shadow over even the sunniest day.

Excellent… Between the four of them, directors and subjects build up a portrait of the grace notes and grind of married life, a varied rhythm as quick as a game of ping-pong (Joel and Maggie are avid players) and slow as the sun traversing an empty apartment.

Leslie Felperin, The Guardian

A thoughtful, revealing and sometimes profoundly uncomfortable viewing experience — at times, it’s like eavesdropping on an unusually tetchy marriage counselling session. At others, the connection between these two fascinating people and the insights into their eventful, fully-lived lives is unexpectedly moving.

Wendy Ide, Screen International

Directors

Manon Ouimet & Jacob Perlmutter

Featuring

Maggie Barrett, Joel Meyerowitz

Credits
Country of Origin

Denmark/UK

Year

2024

Language

In English, French, and Italian with English subtitles

19+
100 min

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Credits

Executive Producer

Mandy Chang, Joslyn Barnes, Melissa O’Shaughnessy, James O’Shaughnessy, Janus Billeskov Jansen

Producer

Manon Ouimet, Signe Byrge Sørensen

Cinematography

Jacob Perlmutter

Editor

Estephan Wagner, Josh Mallalieu

Original Music

Diogo Strausz

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